Some say, it is hard enough to find a love in real life, yet, how is it so easy to find it on internet.
Some of my girlfriends share of their virtual lovers. It came with so many variety stories, but only one of them actually got to meet this guy from internet.
I thought she was crazy on meeting him, saying things or doing internet sex, that i can understand, but to actually meet the person? whoa... wait a minute.. I mean, u practically don't know about this guy, yet u have the courage to see him? what if he is a serial killer? or worst, a horny rapist? I totally against that meeting, but she went anyway
The trouble came shortly after the meeting, the guy said he loves her, and i think my friend also almost feel the same way, I mean she said the sex was great. Wait the sex???? well they never actually had an intercourse, they only hit the second base. But the experience totally blew her mind.
Some months later, during chatting, he asked for something that I knew my friend can not give, but he keeps insisting. So he got mad, she got mad, everybody got bad, until they say hurtful words to each other, and when he said that she's just a slut for wanting to go out with him in the first place, she cried.
The thing is, it was already a disadvantage for my friend being a woman. Why is it that every time a man has 2 girlfriend or even more than one wife, the world think he's superior and great, but when a woman do some fun, they consider them as whore?
That is one of the reason I never involve feelings into my internet business, I'm not that really good at messing someone's emotional anyway, and for one to do that, I think that's cruel.
Last but not least, I ever encounter this quote once that actually picturing me..
You may charge me with murder- or want of sense (We are all of us weak at times):
But the slightest approach to a false pretence was never among my crimes!"
Some of my girlfriends share of their virtual lovers. It came with so many variety stories, but only one of them actually got to meet this guy from internet.
I thought she was crazy on meeting him, saying things or doing internet sex, that i can understand, but to actually meet the person? whoa... wait a minute.. I mean, u practically don't know about this guy, yet u have the courage to see him? what if he is a serial killer? or worst, a horny rapist? I totally against that meeting, but she went anyway
The trouble came shortly after the meeting, the guy said he loves her, and i think my friend also almost feel the same way, I mean she said the sex was great. Wait the sex???? well they never actually had an intercourse, they only hit the second base. But the experience totally blew her mind.
Some months later, during chatting, he asked for something that I knew my friend can not give, but he keeps insisting. So he got mad, she got mad, everybody got bad, until they say hurtful words to each other, and when he said that she's just a slut for wanting to go out with him in the first place, she cried.
The thing is, it was already a disadvantage for my friend being a woman. Why is it that every time a man has 2 girlfriend or even more than one wife, the world think he's superior and great, but when a woman do some fun, they consider them as whore?
That is one of the reason I never involve feelings into my internet business, I'm not that really good at messing someone's emotional anyway, and for one to do that, I think that's cruel.
Last but not least, I ever encounter this quote once that actually picturing me..
You may charge me with murder- or want of sense (We are all of us weak at times):
But the slightest approach to a false pretence was never among my crimes!"
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