A When Harry Met Sally Thingy.....

In the movie, they believe that a man and a woman can not just be friends.. do you all think its right? Just look at Harry and Sally... two such great friends, who eventually loved each other at last, and after so many years later they got married.

I have this case about this kind of relationship. we've been friends for almost 8 years now, i was just 22 at that time, and he was a widower with 2 kids, and yes we met at the internet. We became friends, and it was so easy to talk to him, for he was the first net guy who didn't offer a cyber sex... and i wasn't completely honest with him ( i told him some untruth story of my life and it still goes on till now, yes i'm not happy with my self either). As time goes by, we grew closer, meaning we always chat constantly, and it was true when i say that we didn't romantize our relationship. He was always there on net when i'm online (usually on saturday or sunday, and he was witty and smart, that talking to him was never be boring.

Then i got to work almost 14 hours a day, and by the time i hit sunday, i was already tired, so i lost contact (not entirely, but we're not talking as much anymore, and yes i didn't tell him i got marry either (for some unknown reason, i continued to lied about tiny things in my life).

In June 2005, i quit working, and start talking to him again constantly. We talked about everything, our lives and so many things in between, and still we remained good friends, until talking to him was starting to feel real good, in some aspect in my life, i could almost find something that really give my brain a race, for he was always find some funny or interesting things to say, i just had to keep up. I admired him, he is such a strong man, and i respect the way he live his life, raising 2 kids without a wife.

Yes, we flirt occasionally, but nothing serious is happening. I truly believe he is such a nice man, and i really wanting him to be happy. Until a year ago, he was diagnose with cancer. I support the best i can. I know mere words just won't do, but that was the only thing i could give him.

So until now, he still haven't found what i'm hiding for, but i pray by the time he found out, he won't make it such a fuss.

There you have it, i experiencing a man and a woman relationship un-romantize by things called love.

It is true we love each other, but just as friend. We respect each other and care about one another. So this harry and sally thing, is probably isn't how we live our story. And that is the way we like it